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writes:Hi everyone,I'm a girl and I'm dating my first girlfriend. She lives one hour away by train but I really love her. I didn't come out,my mom thinks i'm with a boy right now. This is one of my problems actually. I'm 17 and my mom says i'm not mature because i don't tidy my bedroom !(Altough my teachers think i'm really grown-up and down-to-earth). I can't go out in the evening on weekends, for example, i have to go to the cinema at 2pm because 8pm is too late... I can't go to parties because she thinks it should start early and not at 9/10pm. And there is a place in our city where every student goes, it's a square with a bunch of pubs and it has a great nightlife. Well i can go there but only in the afternoon, when there is no one! I'm seriously fed up with everything. I still haven't seen my gf yet,i have to go by train but i'm afraid she says no... She also thinks relationships at that age are useless and that i ignore everything about life. I used to be patient and stay on my computer every weekend at night. My parents start complaining about me staying on the computer at night... but i have nothing to do instead, i can't go out ! :( now,i don't wanna spend my life on the net, i wanna live, go out, get great grades as usual and see my gf. I can't talk to her, she never listens to me and she takes my phone and pc away when she's angry then i can't talk to my friends for days :'( Please, do you have any advice? I wanna have fun and see my friends and my girlfriend. She's all i need. Thank you !
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (9 September 2010):
i used to have a similar problem with my dad when i was 14 he wouldnt let me go anywhere or do anything so i started going against his rules we fought a lot and i just kept rebelling it got to the point where i was constantly grounded and he would actually leave someone at the house at all times to make sure i didnt go anywhere so i started sneaking out at night he caught me and boobietrapped the house i still rebelled and it got to the point where he sent me to live on my own this was when i was 15 ive lived with him and other family as well as friends off and on since then but ive been with my boyfriend in our own place for 3 months now im 20 n i havent seen my dad in over a year n a half n the last time i did it was for 5 min so about 2 years almost i guess you could learn from my mistakes
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