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Gents, is your 2nd erection/orgasm as good as 1st when in quick succession?

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Question - (22 August 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Guys,

When you have a 2nd session of intercourse in quick succession do you feel same/similar feelings?

We often go for a 2nd round and though I enjoy it it's HERE near as good as the first round. Maybe it's to do with timing and I need a bigger break but it's just not the same. We don't always have time to have a big break between rounds due to kids/work/sleep/tiredness etc

BTW in quick succession I mean ejaculating twice in about 30-40 minutes.

So guys, how's it work for you and any work arounds?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2012):

Not for me no, generally the first one has a greater sense of relief and release. Kind of like the difference between taking a pee you needed a badly and a normal emptying of the bladder. The former is a relief that is worthy of an "ahhhh".

First orgasm of a session is always best for me purely because it's the first release of the built up tension of that session.

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2012):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntIf I haven't seen my lady for a few days, then usually three times in the first hour is a necessity for me, I just have to have her again and again. The third orgasm is a bit of a struggle to reach, however but I know if I leave it, I'm going to regret it a couple of hours later! But regaining an erection - never a problem.

If we're living together continuously, then once - or twice in quick-ish succession, per day. Any more and it's like the sexual form of gluttony for me!

Overall, my first orgasm is the most powerfully intense.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2012):

My suggestion is to back off a bit the second time once you feel you're getting close. Try to get to the edge a few times without going over. If you can pull this off, the 2nd can be very good. YMMV

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A male reader, doublejack United States +, writes (22 August 2012):

For me it depends. I usually have no trouble getting a second erection, although if I'm very tired or have had a few drinks that may be a question mark. The second session of sex can range from less pleasureful than the first - sometimes I get overly sensitive or am a little sore, to the same as the first, to even better than the first. Same goes for a second orgasm, it can be the same better or worse depending on the situation. One time I managed a third orgasm, and that was definitely way less intense than the first couple.

There are so many variables in this, from how long it has been since I last had sex, to what time of day it is, to how attracted I am to the woman.

For me, though, I can definitely say that a second orgasm is not always less intense. Sometimes it is better than the first one, even if that was less than an hour prior.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (22 August 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntIt always seems to depend upon WHO are the girls who make themselves available..... Mom and three sisters is Uber-good.... Mom, Aunt and two sisters is exquisite... Three sisters and a not-very attractive or sexy nieighbor? Well... a guy's gotta do what a guy's gotta so. One girl and three Golden Retrievers in heat, just doesn't DO anything for me.... so two of the retrievers go home disappointed....

Good question!!!.....

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