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writes: Dear Cupid,I have a really big problem. I've been dating this guy for a couple of months. Recently I found out he has been going out with another girl. I should have expected that it would happen since we go to different schools. I'm scared to speak to him about this but I'm scared if I do he will leave me. And if I don't I'll end up getting hurt. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (27 December 2005):
 Angel,
If he is dating someone else then toss him, cause he obviously doesn't respect you enough and he isn't trustworthy, and why do you want to be with a guy that you don't trust.
You will only get hurt if you allow him to do it.
Tell him to chose or toss him.
There are plenty men out there that are willing to treat you like a queen, go out and find them. Never go for second best cause you worth far more.
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reader, princeess1111 +, writes (26 December 2005):
If he is seeing another girl, then why are you worried about him leaving. If he cares about you then he wouldn't do that to you. My advice is to comfront him and i'm a teenager to so it's not like I'm a mom.
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reader, only1me +, writes (26 December 2005):
Look, relationships require trust. i was cheated on by my gf this term, and that hurt me a lot. if you r being cheated on by him then you SHOULD speak to him about it, and if he cant face up to it then he doesn’t deserve you.
I don’t wish to b repetitive but there r plenty more people out there, and if he cant settle things your probably better off with one of the other 6,449,999,999 people on this planet.
Alternatively if you can convince him to keep his pants on then he is most likely to be worth your time. You have to be confident that you can trust in your partner to be faithful and visa versa otherwise your relationship is not going to work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2005): Why are you scared that he would leave you? What's so special about this boy? You are both young. Move on and learn from this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2005): I am so sorry that you have found this out and that it is this time of year.
The good & bright news is that since you are young and in school that you will absolutely, 100%, be finding someone else as well.
Nobody actually ends of marrying their 'high school sweet heart' these days and since your relationship is relatively new you ought to know that it is better to find out now then to wait several years and find out he is a cheater.
I am a guy so I know that this advice is good. You are a girl, you shouldn't have to put up with this non-sense.
Good luck!
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reader, Phyrekiss +, writes (25 December 2005):
 You should definatly find out if this is true, you wouldnt want to share him would you? If he is seeing someone else, he probably will not readily admit it, and you dont want to be with a guy that cheats anyway. Save yourself some heartache.
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