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writes: Me and my girlfriend broke p a month ago and since then we haven't really spoken. Her reason for breaking up was because she was working on both weekends we couldn't meet up and she feels it's unfair to me. However I knew there was more to it, as the weeks went by, after our break up she been speaking to her friends and mine, telling them that I never showed her enough affection during school and she wants me to change to so that she feels like a couple. Do you think that I should change and show her more affection when I'm around her? As I do feel that I'm in love with her.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (27 December 2005):
If giving her more affection would feel ok for you then, yes do it. Just make sure that you won't be feeling uncomfortable and stuff like that. I wonder, why you didn't give her so much affection in the first place? was it because you didnt feel comfortable? or did you just not reealise you weren't giving her the amount she wanted? if so then i have to wonder why she lied about it in the first place and didnt tell it to your face and try and work it out. i think you shoud go and talk to her, ask her why she lied and if she is willing to work on the relationship.
I hope it all works out for you :) take care
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reader, cassie5591 +, writes (25 December 2005):
She is telling you what she needs, so now you have to decide is it something you can provide willingly or is it something you can't commit to?
I think if you truly love her, you'll know.
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reader, Phyrekiss +, writes (25 December 2005):
 If she had to make up a reason to break up with you, its probably not worth working it out. And if she was telling you the truth, she obviously didnt want to work it out anyway, so either way, I think its over.
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