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*cythe
writes:Hey aunts,Yesterday I found out that the guy I have been seeing over the past month (my first boyfriend) was using me as a rebound girl. He had apparently just come out of an intense relationship and only wanted to have fun with me. It came as quite a suprise to me because he never said anything about his previous relationships. Now I just feel used and hurt since I thought he actually liked me.. he even invited me over for dinner with his parents. Mixed messages!!So I was wondering, has this happened to you guys before? What happened, and how did you deal with it? I feel like a bit of group therapy!
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reader, scythe +, writes (4 February 2008):
scythe is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey DevilishAngel, thanks for the answer. Flavour of the week certainly does count. Omg he had a fiance?! Geez, where do these guys come from! I can't believe that people can be so selfish.
Exercise is a great distraction :) And I'm sure I'll forget all about him soon.
Scythe
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (3 February 2008):
 Well, I was a flavor of the week. Does that count? I loved him with all of my unbroken heart and it turned out he had a fiancee. All I can say is that you have to make that decision to move on and give yourself time to accept that he's not the person you thought he would be. It helps to think about him. Really think about how he is like and realize that he isn't all that wonderful. It helps to do things to keep yourself busy. For example, work out. I never thought I would enjoy exercising but I do and it helps me relieve my stress level. I'm sorry for your pain but I know you'll find a way to get past it...errr him..no..it.
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