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Followup: "Someone posted pictures of my bf " We found out his ex did it and the police won't do anything. Any advice?

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Question - (3 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2007)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

A follow up to my original question:

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/someone-has-posted-a-picture-of-my-boyfriend.html

as for how they got the pictures, I found out his ex-girlfriend posted them up as a joke without his consent or knowledge.

I asked my boyfriend about it, and he said he had no idea - he assumed the photos were just private ones.

He said his ex-girlfriend works in another department of the company, and not the same bit he works in. He said he never sees her any more now, as she cheated on him for an older man.

Yet the boss has still taken no action, and when we took it to the police, they weren't interested, saying it was a "civil dispute".

what do we do now?? luv tara xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007):

If I remember correctly, if your boyfriend gave her the pictures or she took them, they are, unfortunately, her property. I agree with everyone above, just stay away from her and don't worry about it.

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A male reader, leonard j.Douglas Philippines +, writes (3 June 2007):

Me I would like to know what kind of pictures you are talking about? They must not be in the buff. So no big deal forget it move on with your life.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007):

The website should remove it if you contact them. If the ex was not using the work computer or it does not directly impact on the work it may be difficult for your bf's boss to get involved. However your bf should inform his boss that it was the ex and if it continues he may have to put in a harassment complaint to his work about his ex.

My advice is to make sure you and your bf stay away from this woman who obviously is out to cause trouble. Ignore her at the moment but if it continues you both need to make it clear to her that you will take it to the police again and put in a formal complaint at your bfs work.

Hopefully she will give this up and stop being a pain in the ass. Goodluck to you and your bf.

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A female reader, Helen Help! :) United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2007):

Helen Help! :) agony auntPAY BACK!! Do it to her see how she likes it :)

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