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She says she's not gay but she holds me and kisses me. Is she scared to come out?

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Question - (23 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *asj writes:

ok im a lesbian and i've been for three years. so i know like how things go and what not. but i have a bestfriend who like claims she's not gay. but when it comes to me and her being together just chillin'. she holds me and kisses me and what not. but note(she not's gay) and i've really developed strong feelings for her. and all my other friends keeps sayin that she's gay but scared to come out and wants me to be the girl she experiments with first. how do i know this is true?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008):

ask her if she does want to experiment then do it with her

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2008):

aphexinfinite agony aunti agree with purple on this..it could be possible she is gay or bi..i had a friend and he was gay it took him almost 2 years to tell me and i was one of his bestfriends! you need to talk with her as this seems to be a problem..she maybe scared into telling the truth. ask her be gentle about this as its something not all people cope well with.. hope this helps aphex xx

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