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41-50,
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writes:This guy and I... well, we were making out for the first time (we kissed a couple of time before).. and... erm.. he couldn't do it... as in get it up, if you know what I mean.Is that supposed to mean anything? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (22 March 2007):
 Hi, sweetness.
Jendorset was right on. It didn't mean anything towards you, sometimes the first couple of times can be nereve-racking for guys. Just spend lots of time getting to know each other. Also, sometimes guys can't 'get it up' with just kissing. Sometimes they need more than that - not like I'm suggesting that you go any further, but that could be a reason his little friend isn't jumping for joy.
Spend time just ksising and getting to know each other. Once you're comfortable together, I'm sure his little friend will have no problems playing with you.
Also, as Jendorset noted, don't make him feel bad about it. Don't even bring it up if you have too. If he's obviously stressing about it or getting embarrassed, just say, "hey - it's no big deal. I just like making out with you!".
Have fun, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (22 March 2007):
And yes it is 100 percent normal, this kind of thing happens ALOT.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (22 March 2007):
It doesnt mean anything bad towards you, and it isnt really a full reflection on him. It was most likely stress and worry. He needs to relax. He was probly worrying so much about giving you a good time that it got the better of him. Whatever you do, DO NOT make him feel bad about this, or it could seriously damage his confidence. I think you need to spend some time becomeing comfortable with each other, dont rush into it as it may happen again. He really just needs to relax.
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