Is it right to date your best friends brother?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Amy and holly were best mates, Amy was 16. Holly brought her best mate Amy to her Brother Greg’s 18th birthday. Amy and Greg got on well was chatting the whole night and shared a kiss... They talked online for many hours every day for about 2months. Holly told Amy to block Greg as he was f*cked up and she hated him. But Amy was making him feel better and he was making her feel better... They arranged that Amy go to his while his dad and step mom was on holiday... She had to lie to her friends to go as she didn’t want holly to find out. Holly said if Amy went out with Greg she would stop talking 2 her as she said it was a really bitchy thing to do. But by this time they both Amy and Greg really liked each other. Amy and Greg went quite far but didn’t have sex... then holly’s boyfriend, who is also best mates with Amy, IP scanned Amy and found out where she was he didn’t tell holly though.. but had ago at Amy all the time about it... she came home in about a week and a half and confessed to her friends where she had been as she felt bad about lying.. They told her to tell holly and that if she is good mate she would understand... So Amy told holly and holly refused to be friends with Amy again and that she is taking the piss if she expects her to understand. Amy didn’t want to fall out with Holly she only wanted to be in a loving relationship with Greg who felt the same way. Who do you think is right in this situation/ what do you think about it?

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