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First partners and oral sex?

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Question - (3 February 2015) 13 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2015)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When you dated your first boyfriend, did you give him oral sex?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2015):

Yes but I enjoy giving oral sex. Some women don't which is their choice.

It isn't about if we would. But if YOU feel comfortable with it then go for if. If not don't feel pressured.

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A female reader, like I see it United States +, writes (4 February 2015):

like I see it agony auntNope.

And even if everyone here had answered in the affirmative, that still wouldn't be grounds for pressuring someone (or allowing yourself to be pressured) into something they/you were uncomfortable doing.

Good luck and best wishes.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 February 2015):

So_Very_Confused agony auntMy very first "boyfriend" NO

my first SERIOUS boyfriend (we dated 2.5 years as teens) yes. but not right away and NEVER when it was asked for or demanded. usually AFTER I was satisfied...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2015):

This is dependent on SO many factors...some people give blowjobs to one-night stands and some people wait till marriage!! It all depends on what YOU are comfortable with! You shouldn't ever feel forced into anything, and if you do feel forced, I would reconsider your relationship.

To answer your question, yes, I gave my first boyfriend oral sex, but we've been together for three years now (I'm 24 and we met when I was 21...)

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (4 February 2015):

Myau agony auntI tried it with my first girlfriend, but it was my 3rd relationship when I actually enjoyed doing it.

It takes time to get used to doing it.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (4 February 2015):

Are you trying to see if your addition is "normal"? Well it is.

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A female reader, mystiquek United States +, writes (4 February 2015):

mystiquek agony auntNo.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (4 February 2015):

Yes. But I was a late bloomer.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (4 February 2015):

YouWish agony auntNope. I was 15...they didn't have internet porn, and regular porn was scrambled. It would have been hysterical to give a scrambled blowjob. :D

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (4 February 2015):

Tisha-1 agony auntNo.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (4 February 2015):

olderthandirt agony auntNo, she didn't and I wouldn't have expected her to. That came much much later. And never enough either.

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A female reader, Midnight Shadow United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2015):

Midnight Shadow agony auntWhy? It all depends on feelings, age, length of the relationship, etc. Too many variables, what do you want to know from these answers?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2015):

No i didn't.

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