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First he ended it abruptly, now he wants to start up again. My head is spinning...

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Question - (16 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I'm a 22 year old girl and I very quickly fell in love with someone and then he abruptly finished it. Although it was only a few weeks we had grown very close and spent as much time as we could together. There was no real warning that it was going to end and when it did i was quite shocked.

He text me a week ago wanting to get back together and then two days ago finished it again and doesn't want to hear from me. My head is spinning and i don't know whether to actually go and see him as not really knowing is driving me crazy. He was very demanding on me to start with before this strange turn around. This is the first time i have really loved someone.

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A reader, HappyTimeHarry +, writes (23 May 2005):

Love makes you do crazy things, good and bad. Your love for this guy is making you dizzy and blind, or maybe drunk. Either way, you gotta see he's playing games. Games aren't usually real and serious, and games rarely lead to anything meaningful. Don't be a pawn. You are meant for so much more, and a better guy who won't make your head spin in a bad way. I wish you the best.

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A reader, rphillips +, writes (17 May 2005):

You don't mention if sex is involved. Is it? Is he calling you up, and you think that you might work things out and get back together and he thinks that he has someone he can have a quickie with?

Love hurts. And it is never easy. But if this guy felt anything for you he wouldn't be playing games with you. Let him go and find someone new. And if he texts you or calls you, so too bad so sad!

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