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writes:Ok, so I met this guy for the first time..yeah our first date! I noticed a few things about him that I thought were rude, weird, hmmm I dunno you tell me. I go out of my way to cook a nice dinner since everything is closed late NYE. I figured it was a nice way to end 2008 and begin a better year! He gets there with a gift in hand..ok nice. Then, he asks to use the restroom..says, "I have to pee." I was like..hmmm ok I didn't want to know that but fine. I'm heating up dinner and he comes over and says, "I wasn't going to come over or respond to your offer to show up..I figured after our discussion last night that was it on my part." I looked over and said, "Thanks." He responded with.."Hey, I'mm just being honest." I thought..Geez what an idiot! But I made the best of it and continued to be polite on my end...Later with the talking and dinner I forget to bring out the drinks..he says, "Don't you have anything to drink?" With his mouth full..yuk! I thought..do men say please and thank you anymore? At the end of the night..we're sitting on the couch having a nice conversation and he says, "This is great, our first date and I didn't have to spend any money, waste my gas, or anything." I then looked at the time and said, "I have to go."He knew I'd be cutting the night short, due to my NYE plans. Lastly, the next morning he asks if I liked the present? I said, "Thanks, it's nice." Then, he says I didn't know what to bring..I figured a bra with matching thong, but didn't know if you wear that or your size..do you? Ok that tops it off..ahhhh weirdo! I haven't answered his text or calls. Need your advice on this one please!
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (2 January 2009):
 1) he wasn't going to come over but he did-though he felt he had to tell you you he could take the offer or leave it
2) he is rude, have to pee, chews with mouth open
3) he is a pervert giving you lingeree on your first date
4) he is cheap-making you do all the work and telling you he's a freeloader
Nope, no 2nd date needed, no additional communication should be given to this clown.
NYE PVTGUY is acronym for New Years Eve.
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Oh my goodness.
I wouldn't go out with this guy again. Unless you do it for a good laugh at the end of the date or another good story to tell people. But, I wouldn't. Nope. No way...
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reader, Epica100  +, writes (2 January 2009):
Do not text or call him! He is a creep, what reasonable guys give a female lingerie on a first date!
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reader, Jmo +, writes (2 January 2009):
 This guy seriously lacks even the most basic social skills. I'm surprised you managed to remain so polite through it all. Definitely, not second date material.
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