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writes: hey ppl, i really need help, my boyfriend broke up with me cause a really close relative 2 him died,he died while i was goin to meet him, he was his lil boy, he fell into a paddling pool and drowned only a baby 21 months old, so i stayed with him the weekend he died as he wanted me 2 be there!he then he came to stay with me to get away from it all (as he lives in yorkshire and i live in birmingham) he came down for 2weeks then went home for his funeral, the night of his funeral he stayed at his ex's house and the next day she rang me and told me, i was hurting so much, then i rang him and he sed he needed his space, so i have gave it to him, he has now lost his fone, we split up jus over 2months ago, and i made a really good mate out of his brother by going up there, i speak 2 his brother weekly and he is so nice, i have now found out tht my ex as gone bk his ex and i am devastated, i loved him so much he met all my family and i met his, we all got on so well, his ex is horrible i get txts off her sayin i got him now!! every where i go it reminds me off him!! and i think about him every day! my mum is workin in halifax and she saw his work mate there and he sed he hasnt been incontact because he lost his fone and his work mate thought tht we wer still together, his m8 sed his isnt right, but my mum sed if he wanted 2 get in touch with laura he could via his brother, i am so depressed ryt now, i thought we wer really happy, i crnt stop hatin his ex!!! jus feel really lonely can any1 help???
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reader, carebear  +, writes (9 August 2006):
 Laurathis is a sad story for all of you, i don't know how long you went out with this guy but believe me you are not in the same placve as these two people they have lost their child.his ex is behaving like this as she might think he will go back to you and leave her alone to deal with her grief and by him going she may think that she has nothing left of their son. you are young you will find someone else that can love you and make you happy were as they have lost their son forever please have some compasion for this poor girl, leave this guy alone he prob has enough to deal with i know you want to be his friend but you also want more than he is willing to give and he can't cope with that so he has cut you out thinking for your own good. you will get over this and be fine try to get out with friends and leave all this in the past you sound a nice person and its also a shame this has happened to you but please look at the other side that is worse.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (7 August 2006):
 I can understand how hurt you are by this, it was an awful thing to do to you after you supported him so much when he needed you. I think you need to move on now and find someone who loves and respects you as much as you do them.
Get out there, meet new people, hang about with your mates and forget about that loser and his sad ex! She's just as bad as him and, if he thinks that her being childish like that is what he wants in a girlfriend, surely that's not who you want to be!!! It sounds to me like they deserve each other and you need to forget about them.
I know that may seem hard right now but over time, it will get easier. You will meet someone new who is soooo much better than him, who you trust and who doesn't do things behind your back like him. As for her sending you messages like that, don't even rise to it! Next time she does it, just text back saying 'good luck, love, you're gonna need it' and leave it at that. He'll end up doing the same to her and she'll be laughing on the other side of her face then!
I know this is all very childish but I think you need a change of scenery to take your mind off him and the things that remind you of him. Take a trip somewhere with a friend for a few days, have a good time and come back refreshed and ready to move on.
Good luck and keep in touch
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