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writes:I want to ask my friend out on valentines day but I don't know how?!! I will tell her at college. But i dont know how to give it to her alone. Ive likd her for 14 months now. Im crazy over her but she doesnt know and i dont think she likes me. Please help. Were both 18. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): I would make sure that you're alone. It'll be less awkward that way!
You could ring her and talk to her over the phone, or perhaps it would be nicer to meet up together on valentines day. If you're already friends then there shouldn't be too much of a problem with meeting up.
Just find a minute where you're alone together and tell her how you feel about her. And ask her out!
Just be confident =]
Good luck x x x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 You need to be confident and act like a man . Just go up to her and ask her out .You need to ask earlier so that if she wants , she will have the time to prepare for it .
If she does not want , so be it. Then you know where you stand .Don't be a closet admirer only.
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reader, Variety +, writes (21 January 2008):
 How good a friend is she? Are you willing to risk her drawing back from you if she doesn't feel the same? More importantly - can you not tell her? Or is it going to come out sometime anyway? Maybe you could say something like "I don't want to be stuck at home on valentine's day, maybe we could do something as friends..." and then you have time to assess her reaction some more. Also wherever you go on valentine's day is bound to be romantic so you could hint that you wanted more then. Hope this helps. x
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