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writes:Few weeks back, I masturbated while imagining sex with my ex-girlfriend's best friend and I did that for like two consecutive days . Afterwards and now I am feeling guilty for having done that stupid thing as she used to give me so much respect. What should I do now to get rid of this feeling? It would be appreciated if you people can help me get rid of this guilt. Thanking you all in advance .
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): I disagree with these answers.
Society is always telling us to "live out our fantasies" because we deserve to be sexually free.
That is not true. There are limits to what should and should not be done in every persons mind. Every person is different, every person has different morals.
This guy feels bad because this girl gave him a lot of "respect" which I interpret to mean she never tried to seduce him or dress sexy.
He feels bad for violating her good girl image in his head, and in a way, he has.
My advice is, you know what you did was wrong to you, so don't do it again, and remember you're human, and everyone makes mistakes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): You probably feel guilty because you just jerked off. Wait a couple of hours, and you'll start feeling horny again.... and so the cycle continues.... if I were you, I'd just skip the guilty the part.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 Don't feel guilty about this. The whole point of masturbating is to have fantasies that would most likely never happen so that in your head you can live them out. It doesn't mean that you would actually do those things.
Getting rid of the guilt comes from realizing that you should not feel bad for your fantasies. It doesn't make you a bad person.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 You shouldn't feel guilty. At the end of the day masturbating is a very personal thing and sometimes we need to imagine somebody that turns us on so that we can get started. Really there is no shame in this and you shouldn't feel embarrassed or guilty. Look it only you that knows about this, they are never going to find out so just let it go. It has happened now and there is nothing you can do about it. You would have a reason to feel guilty if you actually went and had sex with her best friend. But you never so move on like it never happened. It is your imagination so you should allow yourself to think about whatever you like. Nobody will get hurt. Good luck.
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