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anonymous
writes:why do i fall in love so easily every girl i see i'm thinking she's hot blah blah and if the girl starts checking me out im like falling in love and then i leave and start all over again why? Reply to this Question
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reader, Perspicacious +, writes (19 August 2009):
You sound like a normal, healthy, teenage guy to me!The technical answer to your question is testosterone - it's the hormone your body produces that puts hair on your face, lead in your pencil and all the other changes as you have turned into a man.At your age your body is producing a lot of it, and it is giving you a very high interest in girls.What you are feeling isn't love however - it's desire. Love is something different, as you will discover in time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): That's not love, that's lust. Lust can feel a lot like love, or that 'in love' feeling to begin with, especially in relationships, but as you don't know the girls you claim to love, I can definately say that it is only lust.
I do wonder though, depending on where you meet these girls, why don't you try getting it past the 'checking each other out' stage? Then you could actually get to know these girls and start liking them more than just having a physically/sexual attraction.
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