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writes: Hi,Me and my Girlfriend are both 19 and have now been going out for 3 months, though we have not had sex yet. Thats fine, i wanted to take things slow in the first place anyway as this is my first proper girlfriend.Now im still a virgin, but i now think im ready for sex. How do i go about initiating it? Do i just litrally ask he "Hey, how about we start having sex now?" lolThats about all i think,Thanks!
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (8 April 2006):
 take it nice and slowly don't rush into anyhting to adventurious and rememebr take precautions and be sensible.
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reader, BethIzEre4Yoo +, writes (8 April 2006):
 Right, first off you have to think about the consequences..pregnancy STI's e.c.t and that you are 100% sure that sex is what you want. You should lose your virginity to somebody you truly care about and you should never be pressured or pressure anyone into having sex, it should include both partners' decision and should be special. Right, has she had sex before or is it her first time also? If it is also he first time you should make it memorable. If I was you I wouldnt just ask her straight up 'do you wanna have sex' it wouldnt be right! You need to ask her how she feels about sex and what sort of contreception would suit you both. You need to make sure she knows your open about talking about sex and make sure she knows you respect her views on things. The main thing is not to rush things just because you want to lose your virginity..it is a precious things and once it is lost it can never be regained! Once you both feel open about sex and know it is what you both want then you and once you need to worry about safe sex. a.k.a condoms, the pill e.c.t. Dont worry if things dont go as smoothly as you'd hoped...making love for the first time is a moment you should treasure. Beth 13 England
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (8 April 2006):
 i agree you with d4u04 you should see if shes i the right emotional place. i think that you should wait until you feel the moment is right and then tell her you are ready. thats ho i did it
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (8 April 2006):
 I think you should ask her about it to see if she's in the same emotional place, but obviously don't ask while your in the middle of kissing or something because that will just totally ruin the mood, he he. How about something like a nice dinner together and saying something like 'I'm ready to take this to the next level.' You catch my drift i'm sure...
good luck
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