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writes:dear cupid i was going with this girl for 18 months and she broke up with me there about 2weeks ago she said she broke up with me cause i was being a asshole and i was cause i was going throw a bit if money probs and i was taking it out on her but i have said im sorry by sending her letters and other stuff and she said that she is still in love with me and i do love her 2 bits but she wont give me a anwser and i have give her time 2 think things over and she still wont give me anwser but when where around each other she gets on like she is still going with me yea no the stuff couples do like going out for meals have nights in and stuff like that we still do that but yet again she wont give me anwser every time i ask her she just says i need time my head a mess and there is time she comes out 2 my house drunk and being drop off by other fallas in cars i dont drive my self but im near there i js dont no what 2 do any more i have tryed and tryed and im gettin no where i wana no what 2 do cause the girl is breaking my heart and i take it any more plz help me lol x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): Sounds like she is getting you back or using you. Idk. Maybe she fears being treated like crap again. I know I do sometimes, with my bf.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (12 March 2008):
 Hey
She has been through a crap time with you, and wants out of the tied in shit basically. Been there, done that, bought the t shirt recently. Even wondered if you was him in disguise for a minute there!
She doesn't wanna hurt you, nor lose you completely, so is putting off any definate decision.
At the moment, not being tied into a relationship with you, but being able to spend time with you, is taking all the pressure off her! Very appealing!
Depends how much more you can take. I spelt it out to my ex after 2 weeks that i wouldn't give it another go, because he asked me outright what he was dealing with here, and said he was in limbo and needed to know where he stands, which is fair enough. But thankfully he still wants to be mates and this was over 2 months ago we split.
Only thing you can do is ask her outright and accept what answer she gives you.
C xxxxx
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