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female
age
36-40,
*unawayitscory1
writes:ok... well ive known this guy for about 4 years now. at first he liked me but i didnt like him.. so to make me jealous he went out with my best friend. as time went by me and him got closer as friends and talked aalootttt. and i really started liking him. after him and my friend broke upp... we started getting really physical and we started having sex alot.. but we werent going out.. and he would always tell me he loved me.. but i was kind of waiting for something more.. like for him to ask me outt.. but he never did.. so as time passed we still had sex and we talked on the phone every day for atleast an hour.. thenn he started going out with another one of my best friends.. so i started getting really hurt and he would still try to talk to me on the phone .. and he wouldnt hang out with herr.. unless i came.. and even when they were making out he would look at me. now hes going out with ANOTHER one of my best friendss.. and he sings me love songs and talks to me all the time.sometimes i catch him just staring at me and smiling. and even asks me to fuck him. so what is he trying to do by going out with my friends.. he knows he could have me in a heartbeat if he wanted me. so why doesnt he? he tells all his friends hes in love with me.. but when i ask him he said he doesnt see me as a gf.. but what does this mean?? i know this is long but someone please help me.. even when i try to stop talking to himm he says sweet things and apoligizess.. hes even cried over me.. so whyy does he torture me the way he doess?? wat should i do.. this is killing me.. now all i ever do is think about him.. i cry almost every night. pleasee give me advice!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008): You are making it too easy for him by being at his beck and call all the time and listening to his sob stories that he's filling your head with. Its all bulls**t
He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He is doing the age old "treat them, keep them kean" trick on you. Its like he is keeping you at arms length so he'll have some one to go back to if these other girls don't work out!
If it was me, I would walk away and forget about him. This guy obviously doesn’t care for you like you do about him. He most certainly isn’t worth you crying over him every night that’s for sure. You should just ignore him, go out with your friends, have a good time and show him that you aren’t missing him (even if you are inside) Just show him that he’s not the only one out there for you. Make new friends, mix in different circles and get a make over, change your hair style, clothes and be strong – stay away from him as he is no good for you ?
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