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writes:Recently i split up with my girlfriend. the exact nature of the break was we argued alot and various other issues we had. i lost my cell phone and didnt speak to her for a week. after that week i had hoped she would have moved on. she did and was friendly with a guy and is out with him every night although she maintains its purely as friends. however its only now that i feel i want her back and although she has said at some point in the next week we will get back !She still runs about with this friend but maintains we wil get back soon. Am i being an idiot ? Is she for real ? I hope someone can answer my questions. I am sitting in alot, feel sick constantly, get upset easily and am having trouble eating. Can anyone out there offer some advice ?
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (7 June 2010):
CaringGuy hit the nail on the head.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 June 2010):
By Thursday, she will know where she stands with this other guy. Trust us, you're being played here. Don't go back.
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reader, Martin25 +, writes (6 June 2010):
Martin25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do want her I really do. She calls me when she is with the guy thats why it leads me to believe she does want me although she says by thursday she will have me back. A dont quite get the angle or am I being naive
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): Sounds like you are plan B.
Although reading your post, I am not sure you know what you want either. Ask yourself do you only want her because she is with someone else.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (6 June 2010):
"At some point in the next week we will get back"?? That makes no sense. If she meant that, it would already be a done deal and she would be at your place right now. She is "shit-testing" you by feeding you some garbage, and you're eating it up. Get out of the house, lift some weights, eat some vegetables, and talk to another girl. You'll feel a lot better.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 June 2010):
I think she's keeping you around in case things with this other guy don't work out. Seriously, move on from her. You'll wind up second best and just get dumped again.
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