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anonymous
writes: Hi guys, I need help over my ex bf he dumped me for his ex the mother of his child, anyway we are still having sex once or twice a week,talk on the phone everyday,i see him most days aswell, anyway for the past week hes invited my for a drink and friday we went for a very long drive just like the old days, and last,nite he even winked at me,and comented on my new top i had bought that day,My friend said its like we havent split up, and others say he still has feelings for me?Like yesterday afternoon i was driving on the other side of the road and i saw him driving, nxt thing i no was he was following me and i mean following untill we stoped, i asked him what he was doing and he said he was board, he then said he would call me after seeing his daughter and he did Im really confused at what he wants from meWe have stayed good friends after are split and he says i no the score that we are only friends but recently im beging to wonder what he really wants after my friends have said this to Does anyone else have this sort or relationhip with an ex or is it just me
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): these girls are right. he is playing you so badly. he looks good with his family by staying with the girl he impregnant, yet still gets you? he doesnt love you, he just wants you around for the sex. he probably has more "girls" too.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (7 December 2008):
Hi honey, i'm sorry if this is abit harsh sounding but what this guy wants from you is a shag. Sorry, but why do you want to be with a guy who dumped you for his ex and then has sex with you behind her back? Sounds like a real prince charming! Don't you want better for yourself than that? He's using you girl and treating you like a fool. Get out of there please. good luck x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (7 December 2008):
Its usually only people with very low self asteem, or people that really dont want a serious relationship.
This guy is a playa.
I dont know who your friends are, but they seem to be very dim in my opinion. This isn't love, not by a long chalk. And that really isn't rocket science. He's keeping you at arms length for a reason.
C xxxx
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