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The Ex Boyfriend is a stalker???

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Question - (7 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *unter_jumper writes:

ok i need help. well a few years back i "whent out" with this guy, [i'll call him #6] we only whent out for like 2 months. well he broke up with me. over the phone. on a voicemail. that was 12 seconds long. i was so upset, he was the first guy to say i love you and he was always talking about our future and about us riding (we both ride horses) together. having a farm and all that. now that i think about it, it was kinda wierd but then i was like omg. well it toke a year and a half to get over him.

now im up at the high school.

at the begining of the year #6 asked out my best friend after he was telling me how much he missed me and couldn't belive i could be his again and crap like that. well they broke up and i wouldn't even look at him. he got ticked. he started talking crap and all.

well then i whent out with his best friend but i didn't know they were bestfriends. (i'll call him #87)we whent out for like a month and he liked me way more than i liked him, he was tochy and i didn't like it. so i broke up with him.

then a junior asked me out he is super protective when cody is around. "the unior" says its just a guy thing but i have guy friends on the wrestling team and they all told me that #6 always talks about me and is a jerk to "the junior" i know #6 likes me again. he told my boyfriend that. idk wat to do tho, he hits me in sum way everyday in the hallway, and follows me around, watches my facebook page and is always tring to get close to my friends....HELP

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008):

Sounds like you come from a small town where everybody knows everybody. That is difficult! Stay away from #6! If he is making you uncomfortable...tell someone...preferably an adult you trust!

Good Luck!!!!

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A female reader, TMar United States +, writes (7 December 2008):

TMar agony auntYou should make it clear to your ex you are no longer interested in looking at him as dating material. Don't add him to facebook and don't reply to text messages he sends you. Eventually, he should get the hint you are no longer wanting to be with him.

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