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writes:ok well,my boyfriend(ps:astrology belivers welcomed)he is a virgo and im a gemini, he is very demanding and im free spirited. hes passionate im not. we've always worked through it, but lately we've been having some troubles. well in highschool we get a weeks off vacation so we hadnt seen each other the entire time so we'd talk through myspace since he didnt have a phone but we'd constantly tell each other we miss each other. when we came back he gave me this kinda fake ass hug do i was just hmmm... ok? butlater on in the day i had found out from his twin brother that he told him that he broke up with me so i was furious and angry you know? so while he was walking me to class i started yelling at him syaing "wtf? how could you tell your brother that?" and i was pulling him and pushing him okkk i guess you can say i over reacted but dont i have a reason too? so he pleaded his case saying "i never said that he got my words mixed up he's(his brother) the one who jumped to conclusions" then i was trying to say sorry he pulled away from me and stormed off. so at lunch where we usually meet he never showed up so i was just like ok hes mad, and ps he has his bitch moments so you can say i wear the pants lol, but anyways he didnt show up so i went where my friends hang and my bestfriend had just told me that my boyfriend had previously thought about breaking up with me because he doesnt like how i tell my friends to ask him things about me (WHICH I NEVERRRR DO)and then my boyfriends bestfriend was telling me yes he was planning to break up with you beacuse he has lost some feelings for me so i started crying and blah blah blah,but as the day went on he neeeeveeerr broke up with me, so i just left it alone but then his bestfriend called me and told me how he said he no longer gonna break up with me and that he said he's never gonna talk to another girl nor cheat on me which i thought was cute you know? so the next day i thought everything would be normal IT JUST GOT WORST. not only did he not talk to me when i tried to talk to him he walked away :( so i was like forget him maaann :( so then today in math class which i have him in he was talking to this girl i really hate and even told him not to talk to hes over her chatting it up! with her, like wtf? and everytime he'd finish a convo with her he'd look up at me, so he's done this before but he always comes back, so i didnt really say anything, but then at the end of the period i heard him saying to her " oh we neeed to party together we'd be turnt up with each other" so that just broke my heart and i just wanted to cryyy but i didnt, we still arent broken up, but he still hasnt talked to me, my question is what the heck am i suppose to do now? cuz i really likeee him like alot.
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reader, sounknown31 +, writes (10 April 2010):
sounknown31 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thankssssss sooo much you guys , but guess what? he had his bestfriend come up to me and say we dont go out no more coward huh? he constantly tries to make me jealous but i ignore it and i feel relieved , a 1000 pounds of stress has been let out so im doing great xoxo
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 Maybe he is scared to tell you to your face because you used physical aggression on him when you started shoving and pulling him around.
Maybe his plan is to keep his distance until you back off by yourself rather than face your obvious wrath.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 He may have shared his views about breaking up with you with his brother and friends through his frustrations.
Talking and doing are two different things.He is unable to come to the point of doing what he says.
He may not have the courage to break up with you or that he has not found the way to give you the soft landing.
You could ask him to come out for a drink and thrash out what is wrong between you two and solve those issues.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (8 April 2010):
 Astrology signs are kinda ridiculous, having said that its interesting when you start noticing similarities between different friends of the same sign. I've found almost all pisces girls are extremely emotional and sensitive, most taurus's I meet are very stubborn and gemini guys tend to be a little bitchy and two faced. I only found myself drawn to replying to this because he seems exactly like two gemini guys I know. Bitchy and two-faced.
I doubt his twin brother would have gotten confused about what your boyfriend said to him. I'd be inclined to believe that he did tell him that he broke up with you or atleast was going to soon. You should dump him in my honest opinion, cos I don't think him dumping you is far off, and next time he may actually have the courage to do it.
But that's just my opinion, its been a while since I was in high school, tomorrow everything may be perfect... Who knows how you crazy kids operate anymore.
Best of luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): Well, Maybe its fate telling you two aren't the couple. Maybe you should break up with him and find someone else. I've had the same things happen. But if you really want to stay together, talk to each other somewhere alone. Good luck hun!
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