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writes:I luv ma boyfriend so much and i feel he loves me too but sometimes i wonder if he loves me as much. we hardly ever agree on phone but when we are together we don't quarrel. Each time i try to tell him something he misunderstands me and makes me look like a problem child. i can sense it whhen something is wrong but he doesn't make it look like a problem rather he acts up. I hate to quarrel with him. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson  +, writes (26 August 2011):
Then I don't think he is right for you. He should respect you and it doesn't look like you are going to get that from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks very much helpMcHelperson. i had told him i feel like he is not giving me enough respect but he gets mad saying how can i think of something like that.the problem is he hardly ever see his faults.without this attitude,i could rank him the best and am so emotional that it tends to break me sometimes
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reader, HelpyMcHelperson +, writes (25 August 2011):
I think you need to speak up. Everyone in a relationship will have arguments when they are in the right and arguments when they are in the wrong but it is wrong of him to make you look like a problem child every time because it suggests he doesn't respect you.Say how you feel plainly to him and try to get him to see how he is making you feel. If that doesn't work he may not be right for you.
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