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writes:So here it is. Finally a dating guide for Teens written by a Teen. Dating can seem daunting. I mean first there's the actual asking them out and then there's the actual date. No wonder we're usually so nervous about messing up that we mess up anyway. Step 1. Be friends. If your not already friends then this is gonna take a lot longer. You need to find out what they like. then you need to get talking.Talk about school, friends, gossip. But totally avoid the conversation of your or their exes - totally not the way to go, it just makes things akward.2. Ask her/him out. Okay so it's not as easy as everyone makes out. It's nerve racking, terrifying and embarrassing. But you have to remember one thing. Confidence is the Key. if you act confident you'll look confident. Just say "would you like to go to the cinema some time?" If your not up to asking them out just arrange to go with a group of friends. Sorted.3. The Date. if your not big on talking, Cinema is great. The Funfair is also good because you only need to talk inbetween rides and games. Just be yourself. Okay i know it sounds Clique and it's not as easy as it seems but try to relax and it should all go well. Just talk about simple stuff eg school and mates but again STAY AWAY from the topic of exes.4. The Kiss. Okay so this probably the hardest bit. "Does he wants to? Does she want to? Do I want to? when your about to say goodbye just lean in and relax. Done.Any question just comment and i'll answer. Hope the guide helps -x-x-x-x-
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reader, Odds  +, writes (1 September 2011):
 Just to throw in my two cents...
1) Being friends first is something I would vehemently recommend against. Don't do it. Nine times out of ten, being friends first kills the girl's attraction to the guy, if it was even there to begin with. Girls like mystery and assertiveness; taking your time to get to know her before asking her out destroys both. Much better to exchange about five minutes of talk and then ask her out.
Now, some things to add.
A) For guys, get some wheels. Borrow your parents' car, or work hard at a summer job to get one, even if it barely runs. Get your license as soon as you possibly can.
B) For girls: don't hook up with anyone. Kiss and have sex only within long-established relationships. It's incredibly easy to get labeled a slut, and without bringing up the debate over whether that's right or fair, it's something to avoid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2011): Hey this is really good and is a great help. I think its easier to follow beacause its written by a teen so you know what we're going through
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