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36-40,
*lint_3188
writes:Hi there, I'm new to this so hear I go. I'm 21, I have never had a girlfriend because of the way I look. I never had sex but that's not a big thing. Every time I like a girl and ask them out I get shot down. Is there anything I can do.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 It may be that you are going after the wrong girls, it may be the way you come accross. It is hard to tell with so little information. It also may be just that you have yet to 'come into your own'. When my boyfriend was your age he had some trouble too. While he did date and have girlfriends he wasnt exactly a ladies man. Then when he hit about 30 things really changed for him. Girls started asking HIM out and chasing him and even proposing! What was differant? He was a little older now, more mature. He was good looking, but not a studmuffin, with a very nice body. He was highly intelligent with an MBA and a patent to his name. He had a great personality and was fun to be with. By their mid 20s and thirties girls are looking to settle down and find a good husband and he began to fit the bill. When they, and he, were younger it was harder for girls to see that he would make a good long term, lifetime mate. They are a little to flighty and superficial to notice things like that when they are only 18 or 20. Give them a chance to grow up and yourself, too.
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reader, cdjudd +, writes (29 January 2009):
You are probably just running across the wrong girls. You will find someone. When it comes to finding a partner, it always comes when least expected. Keep your head up man.
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