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writes: hi ppl. i got my bf to put this on at 3am in the mornin coz i am reli worried i may be pregnant. we havent had full intercourse but i am worried the lil tadpoles as i call em, well the sperm can get me pregnant, im too young n he wnt buy any contraceptive pills coz hes to embarrased and so am i.we have touched each other n stuff but im scared i can still get pregnent, ive heard even if 'the tadpoles' get near me in that area, i can get pregnant, but loads of ppl i kno have had full sex and came out fine, then theres others who say it just takes once, i dont know wot to beleive, and now were both worried, plz help xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxso can touching without a condom still cause pregnancy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2007): can i get pregnant having intercourse one week after my period
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reader, rachy-baby-helps +, writes (25 July 2007):
Unfotunately you can get pregnant through just touching, because some of those 'little tadpoles' could still be around and alive. However, it is a very small chance. But that doesn't mean you should take the risk.If you are both worried about getting contraception then go together, or ask a friend or family member to go with you. This way you will feel less embarassed and could even have a giggle about it later?! Your GP is not allowed to give out information about you to anyone else, so no one else will know that you have been for that specific reason.
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reader, Beckto +, writes (25 July 2007):
Flower Girl did it again. She hit the nail on the head, so to speak.
If you're not mature enough to go buy condoms, you're not mature enough to have sex.
And as she said, it IS possible to get pregnant that way, but I have to add that it's a very, very small chance.
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reader, happytochat +, writes (25 July 2007):
Perhaps if you both go get the pill TOGETHER it will be less embarrasing. Go together and support each other. Its either that or you will have to later face the embarasment of either geting an abortion or telling eveyrone you know that you are pregnant. I think geting on the pill now would be the best idea.
As for your chance of geting pregnant by touching each other- yes its true, if his pre-cum comes anywhere near your vagina area you could get pregnant. I know some people have had unprotected sex and not gotten pregnant, but thats just luck...
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reader, flower girl +, writes (25 July 2007):
If you both can't be grown up enough to get contraception sorted then you really should not be messing about taking risks babe.
Yes you can still get pregnant even if he was not inside you, especially if he has been near you in that area and he had any pre cum.
The people that have had full sex and come away fine have just been extremly lucky as it really is russian roulette when it comes to unprotected sex.
Go and visit your nearest family planning clinic where if needs be they can test you and talk to you both about contraception, as it is something that needs to be sorted embarrased or not as we all have to go through it.
Take care.xx.
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