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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I know I'm still relatively young, but even at this age I know the agony of heartbreak. Many times I've fallen in, just to be broken again. I always think I've given up on love, but then I fall again. Every new beginning, every sign that says this time it's different, they always seem to get me to walk in that trap called love. Maybe it's me. It's only been a few days since my girlfriend broke up with me, and already I'm fading away. She said we could still be friends, but she wont talk to me, she wont even look my way. I haven't been able to sleep, I have no appetite, all I can think about is her. I don't know what to do. I have no one else. She's all I've got, and she left me, now I am nothing. I wish i couldn't love, so I wouldn't break. I keep living in denial, if not, ignorance. And the shadows of past heartbreak follow me, watching, waiting for the moment to trip me and make me fall. There is no new beginning, there is only the end.
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reader, Curiousbynature  +, writes (29 July 2008):
Its only going to get worse. Sorry, but its true. And if you are so sweet and innocent as you sound, you need to be respected as well!
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reader, Shade'sGirl +, writes (29 July 2008):
Being in the same age group i know exactly how it feels to fall head over heels for someone then utterly fall apart when they walk away.
Believe me when i say i know it hurts. Ive had many guys walk away for a long list of reasons and just when you think that theyre different from all the rest they turn out to be exactly the same.
If you really care about this girl, different than anyone else, call her and tell her! If she is truely meant for you then she will understand and if she only wants to be friends then steadily build on that friendship. Sometimes exes can make the best friends hun.
If she's not the girl for you hang out with friends, live life a little more on the edge. Believe me, it makes you feel a hellova lot better. And just think; the girl for you is out there and waiting! And it's all a big adventure to find her! And finding her is half the fun :D
Go out there and find your girl hun! No matter where you want to find it, love is always there waiting :)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 July 2008):
 I wish I could give you a simple solution, but unfortunately the age old adage is true. Time heals all wounds, my sweet. Breakups are so difficult to go through... you sit around in this horrible, dark fog for a few weeks and then it starts to ease away. The best you can do is distract yourself. Seriously, just focus on getting your attention elsewhere - go to the arcade with some of your buddies, go to the batting cages, go to the movies, go to a play. Look up all the free music around your town and check out some gigs. Dwelling on the breakup will do you no good... really, it won't.
The best you can do is get out there and get your mind off of things. It will still hurt for awhile, but the pain WILL ease away with time. And, though right now love has done you wrong, you'll be able to love again in time. The right woman is coming, just have faith that you will find her in the future. Until then, relax and wait out the the heartbreak by distracting yourself as much as possible.
Good luck, sweetness.
xx India
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