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writes: Did it ever happened to anybody,that you thought for years,you were impotent,when you tried to have sex,with your wife,but than you fall for another woman,and it came back? I have a feeling ,it might be the case with me,but I feel very bad for my wife ,who thought,I was just having erectile dysfunction. Now ,I have an affair,and it is great.What should I do? I think,she will brake down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): What a bad thing to do to your wife. How long can you live in lies? When are you going to tell yourself, who you really are?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): you give thinking with your dick a new meaning
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): If you've had ED for years and haven't been able to have sex with your wife, chances are she has been cheating on you the same way you are cheating on her now.
Bet you never thought about that, did you?
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reader, OhGetReal  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 Oh my God, you're question is about ED, not the fact that you are cheating on your wife. Obviously, your ED is caused by psychological issues, like you feel pressured in your REAL life by real responsibilities. This is all about YOU, not your wife, but I can tell you one thing.
You will never fix your marriage by turning away from your wife and going towards another woman. You will take your current psychological issues and problems from the current marriage into this affair should it turn more serious and part of your everyday life. Because right now you are living a fantasy, not real life and that is why those pressures have disappeared with the new woman, but they will reappear as soon as she becomes the main event...because you are bringing your personal baggage along for the ride.
Get some counseling...get some help...and take your noodle with you.
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