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writes:I really enjoy giving my husband blowjobs but when it comes to his cummin in my mouth and swallowing his fluids which i really really want to but i just cant seem to get past my inhabitations of what i was brought up to believe; which i know makes him feel unsatisfied and i want to fully satisfiy him as well as my own enjoyment of givin him head and enjoy his fluids in my mouth as well as swallowing his cum.How can i get past this please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): So what was it that you were brought up to believe? I think this missing factor is not giving your question any satisfying answers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): I may have read your post wrong when I posted my first answer. Do you allow him to cum in your mouth and just don't swallow? Do you want to swallow for your own pleasure or is it just for his pleasure? If you don't want to do it and just are trying to do it to please him they I would say to discuss it with him and explain that you really can't get yourself to do it. You shouldn't if you really don't want to. If you really want to, but just can't get up the courage then take some of the advice written here.
My wife had never had cum in her mouth before she met me. After a few months of dating we were watching some porn and the guy did it. She said that she had always refused to do that. Over the next couple of weeks I hinted that I would like that. No one had ever done that to me before, either. She got excited about the thought of it and told me that she wanted to, so one night, while fondling on the couch, she gave me a blow job and swallowed. She looked at me and smiled. It was fantastic. We were both in our mid 30s at the time. She later told me that it tasted terrible, but she was so excited to do it that she didn't care. She now almost likes the taste and loves doing it. If she had never consented to doing it we would still have had a great sex life, but it just adds a little excitement for both of us. I could easily live without it if she didn't enjoy it.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 October 2007):
Use a strong mint before. That hides the taste. Force yourself to swallow. Its an aquired taste thing. It gets easier each time. I've heard some women say they have him cum in the back of the mouth and then swallow without tasting anything. I've also heard when a guy eats less red meat and drinks lots of fruit juice their semen tastes better. You are right that men love it when you swallow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): You don't have to swallow!
I have never been into that, but follow Richard Emids post and I don't think you husband will have anything to complain about.
Some girls can. some girls can't! Not for everyone.
I feel some of the successful techniques in giving a bj is the anticipation and power a women has over her mans most precious bits. Use that power instead of swallowing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): My wife likes to swallow, so neither she nor I can help directly on how to get over this. There is one other thing you can do with his cum that is very erotic and sensual. It appears from your post that you do allow him to cum in your mouth. After he does, open your mouth so that he can see your mouth full and then let it drool slowly out of your mouth. By the way, if you are having problems with the taste, eat a couple of strong mints before giving a blow job. My wife discovered these about 10 years ago. Sometimes I still "punish" her by not allowing her to have the mints, which adds to the turn-on for both of us. It is a turn-on for us guys to have the woman swallow. After all, we worked hard to make that stuff. HE-HE
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 It's just an optional answer:Why must you do it if you don't like it?Why to change yourself for his (just a bit bigger) pleasure?
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Keep licking the side while he is ejaculating - it's very pleasurable, very very pleasurable. Don't stop licking till he's finished. It's not necessary to swallow to give satisfaction - just keep the oral sensation going while he is coming. Try it. Hope this answers your Q.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): I personally think that swallowing is revolting, and it churns my stomach to think of it. I love to lick and suck, but when he starts to cum, I simply don't let it be in my mouth, yuk.
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