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30-35,
**Ke-Ke*~
writes: Hey! I have a problem with my boyfriend. When I ask him what's wrong with him when he's mad, he starts to tell me but then he says never mind. This whole week he's been upset and he doesn't tell me a thing and I'm starting to get so upset that it makes me sick and i don't want to do anything. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Perspicacious +, writes (6 September 2009):
As you have no idea what is wrong with him, it could be anything. It's probably not that he doesn't trust you, but that the problem is something personal to him.
Give him time - Sometimes the best thing we can do is just be there for someone and if they want to talk to us they will when they are ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): Well, some people find it hard to open up to people(even the ones they trust the most). Talk to him. Tell him that he can talk and tell you about anything and if he is still like that just stop asking him and let him figure it out himself. Some times in order to be a good girlfriend you just have to be there for that person. Not necessarily fix their problem with words, just with your presence.
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