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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys, the last 7 months have been hell for me and my partner. i love him and he love me but i found out in january that he cheated on me in the first month of our relationship with his ex. since then we have both been through so much. we have both been trynna make this work but he still doesnt tell me everything which sets us back a great deal. for example if he talks to his ex or if he goes out, he wont make the conscience effort to tell me until i ask him. recently its been a case of me walking away and then coming, its happened atleast 6 times in the last 7 months and frankly its piss taking. i realllly wnna be with him and he realy wants to be with me but we are in a postion were we dont know what to do. i had a convosation with him explaining how i felt e.g why cant he just tell me what hes doing before me asking him, but he says that it would make no difference coz i still wouldnt believe it, which is partially true...im so confused how do i believe what he says without me goin crazy. even when he tells me hes going out with his friends im completely insane with worry and i dont always believe him when he says hes here or there. how do i change that, i really want to believe him but i dont know how.if someone could help me please, people who have been in the same position in which they have regained trust in a relationship. pleasee please this is my last hope and please dont say to finish with him coz thats not an option any more, ive tried to break up, 6 times, but it hasnt worked i really need something else THANKSS.... sorry its really long
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (20 August 2009):
 You are young! WHY are you trying SO hard to make something that doesn't work, work? Why not find a guy that you CAN trust? Did you want to marry and have children before you finally dump the guy, after trying 6 times? Get realistic and get on with your life. You deserve better, you deserve to be treated well and loved.
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