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writes:Hi I am a 24 year old virgin,I don't believe in sex before marriage,I believe in abstinence..I know some of you may think its crazy but these are my values,luckily the men I have dated understood this about me and never pressured me into sex..I do watch porn tho but I don't like straight porn and I prefer lesbian porn,and the thought of having sex with a man I'm just scared it might really hurt the first time..Does this mean I'm bisexual?I have never ever been with a woman..but I never watch straight porn is it wierd I don't like it!and the whole straight porn looks so painful..I don't know if I ever want that in me,if you know what I mean..What are your thoughts?
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reader, rescuer01  +, writes (3 September 2012):
No it doesn't.There are lots of girls and women who like watching lesbian porn including the woman I am with.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (29 August 2012):
 It is normal to watch lesbian porn, just as normal as it is for anyone to watch porn. There's nothing abnormal about it, and tons of straight people watch gay porn.
Fantasy is fantasy, real life is a very different thing. The stuff I love in real life is not the stuff I watch in porn. And there is no way I would actually enjoy in real life most of the things I get off to from porn.
In either case, you don't have to label yourself. Labels are stupid. You are who you are, and if you happen to meet a woman one time that you are attracted to then so be it. If you never meet a woman who you are attracted to then that's fine too. For all we know you might be a pansexual, where gender doesn't matter at all. But until you have met such a special lady then I suggest you stick to the label "straight".
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2012): I have to disagree with many responses here. If you watch a lesbian porn because you're attracted to the actresses or their sexual acts, then yes you're bi. Many women here try to make it sound normal for women to watch lesbian porn. Str8 women aren't sexually attracted to other women or watch lesbian porn. Period. If you're sexually attracted to both men and women, that qualify you as "bi". It doesn't matter what other people say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2012): You sound completely normal I like girl on girl porn but would never sleep touch another woman, don't worry you will soon figure out your sexual preferences as soon as your sexually active!
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reader, chigirl +, writes (28 August 2012):
No, watching lesbian porn does not make you lesbian, nor bisexual. You could be bisexual for all I know, but whatever porn you watch is NOT relevant to your sexual orientation.
Porn is a sexual fantasy, not the reality of your sexual interests. Maybe you think a man looks scary in porn, but in real life you'll find him irresistible and crave "it" inside you. You never know. But porn isn't an indicator of anything other than what you enjoy fantasizing about.
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reader, Ali_x  +, writes (28 August 2012):
 Well Once a Lady Doctors said to me..! "that all Women are Bisexual..!! its just they dont knw how to explore there feel from their inside ..!! " Straight Men neva watches Gay Porn..! but they do watch Lesbian porn....!! same goes with the girls too..... watching girls on girl is the most erotic and sexual scene to arouse anybody ..!! weather it is Gay people or Straight people..!! I might be wrong..!!
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (28 August 2012):
 No, watching porn is not reflective of your sexuality. I am a lesbian but I have watched all types of porn, lesbian, straight or gay. Straight porn is not aimed at women, it is not nice and it is nothing like real life! The only thing that makes you bisexual is if your are sexually attracted to women as well as men. So don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2012): No more than watching a guy have sex with a woman makes a guy gay.
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reader, agonyauntsanonymous +, writes (28 August 2012):
Pornography is all visual and fantasy and what you may like in porn doesnt mean you will like it in reality. I think you are scaring yourself. I did that too before i had sex. I was so scared it would be the most painful thing, and yes it did sting a bit but was nothing near what i had thought it would be lol. I think the only way to know if you are truely bisexual is to have a relationship/date a woman. It depends on whether you have romantic feelings for women and if you can picture being with the same sex. Im bisexual, more like pansexual actually but gender and sex never really mattered to me. Im attracted to the person themselves not their birthday suits thats just a bonus. So are the relationships you have with men fufilling? Have you ever wanted to be in a romantic relationship with a woman? Do you have any attraction to women outside of porn? Those are the questions to ask yourself. But all in all watching lez porn doesnt make you bi or lez.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (28 August 2012):
 No it does not make you bisexual. I used to watch lesbian porn as well. And as for straight porn with a man and a woman, it is nothing like real life. It's all fake and done a certain way and over the top for entertainment purposes.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (28 August 2012):
 No it doesn't. Straight porn should be renamed porn for straight men because that's really what it is. I can't imagine someone who is nervous about it hurting would enjoy watching someone be treated roughly, which happens in 88.6% of "straight porn." That is nothing like real life or how people actually have sex, don't let it frighten you about it.
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