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*weetwoman23
writes:I am chatting to this man on a dating website we seem to get on quite well he says he is attracted to me because of my looks and my personality, he says he wants to get to know me more and more. He says he would like to kiss and cuddle me and he likes my personality very much.He says he fancies me very much and wants to meet me.Last night he had an erection whilst chatting to me online as he hasn't had one for a while.He lives 2 hrs away at the moment but he says that he will be moving to the north west soon.He has imagined me sharing a bed with him and cuddling each other.Does this man genuinely like me or is it just sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2012): He is after online sex by the sounds of him. They have a pattern they follow and I heard what he is telling you many....many times when I used to chat online. If he is grooming you for online sex, dont be tempted to do anything because you never know where still shots of you or videos might end up. He is only 2 hours away. If he wont meet you in person then dont be tempted to start doing anything regrettable with him on camera.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2012): like most blokes on the dating site scene, it will all be about sex.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (31 May 2012):
 To be blunt, I think it's about sex.
You do not know anything about him, because you have not seen him in real life and you haven't been to his home or met his family.
A lot of men are chancers, the internet is the perfect playground for them to get sexual gratification from nameless women who they have no respect for. This guy might even be married or in a relationship already.
If he is genuine and wants to be with you, he will meet you, date you properly, allow you to meet his friends and family and NOT make it all about sex.
Be careful
Do not rush into sex until you know all about him.
Don't give him any money.
Don't believe everything he tells you.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (31 May 2012):
 It is very hard for us to guess what this guy is wanting or thinking, to be honest him talking about his penis isnt exactly the best sign in my eyes but that is just me.
All you can do is ask him what it is he wants and if you do meet him do not have sex with him straight away and if hr likes you he will be ok with that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2012): You don't know someone's personality from the internet...
He's told you he's imagined sharing a bed with you? omg, sounds like he just wants sex to me.
Hope I am wrong for your sake Good luck though!
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