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writes:Okay. So, I met this guy at a grad party a couple of weeks ago, and we started talking for a good hour or so, and I thought he was flirting with me--he had a good many friends at this party and he spent his time there talking with me--he got me a chair when we went to sit on the grass outside. So I told him I'd see him at his graduation (I was going for another friend) and gave him a hug after the ceremony, and he said "I'll be coming to yours!"He did. He didn't know anyone else at the ceremony, and when my friends who came to see me asked him why he was there, he hemmed and hawed. I found him on Facebook and started talking to him on MSN and asked him if he wanted to go to a play with me. He said yes, but then he said "Bring whoever else you like, we can carpool up" since the play is about a forty-five minute drive up. I assumed from that that he wasn't interested in me.A couple of days later, he asked me if I was going to so and so's party. I said I was, and then he asked me how I was getting there, and then I ended up getting a ride with him (my brother and his two friends also came with us). We were by ourselves on the way back, and he said something about taking me star gazing (which he had mentioned before.) However, he's never started an MSN conversation, and the carpool comment is still confusing me.Apologies for this long diatribe, I suppose my main question is this: Does he like me, or am I just wasting my time? And if he does like me, what do I do to get him to bite the bullet and do something about it?
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reader, Gem86  +, writes (14 June 2007):
 Hmmm... I would be a little bit confused by all this too. He either likes you, but as a friend. Or, he does like you in the way you want!
The only thing I could suggest right now is spending a bit more time with this guy as friends. I dont honnestly believe he's playing games with you, I just dont know if he knows what he's doing! lol.
If you think he does like you, just go for it. I dont think Ive met many guys who are put off by that, I think they may actually like it hehe.
I hope Ive been some kind of help, Take care xxx
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (13 June 2007):
 Hey! you're young and you're free, go for him! He's showing interest by the sounds of things! And if it doesn't turn out that way, well atleast you'll know but until then, flirt, have fun and just see how it goes!
His mixed messages are a bit weird but I say don't give up! If ya like him, go for him! :)
Hope I helped x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): I think this guy is just playing games hunny, if he really liked you he would of done something about it by now instead of just saying things. Move on and find someone who does really like you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): He likes you. He's just not sure about you, either.
As for getting him to bite, maybe iyou/i should make the first move. Traditional romance aside, most guys won't mind you expressing interest in them (especially if that interest is you jumping him when no one else is around ;) ).
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