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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. My ex girlfriend and i broke up about 4 weeks ago and shes with someone else. She made me mad about 2 days ago and i went off on her and i told her That i seriously didnt want to see her again ever. She txted me later that night saying "I was hoping you cooled down by now, call me or txt me when you can". I nvr replyed. Then she sent another one in the morning asking if i could come by her house before class (college). I nvr replyed to that one either. She later started calling me over and over again throughout the day. Then today she started calling again early in the morning and she ended up being outside in the drive way. She was upset and worried about me really hating her for what happened. We talked for about 2 hours about everything and i eventually wasnt mad and we started to talk normal.(the reasons for hating her are good reasons just too much to explain) Right before she left we hugged for about a min and i tried to kiss her. She let me do it but didnt kiss back and said she had to go. I stopped her and told her that really wasnt what i wanted, that i really want to move one and i didnt know what to think because i just had a complete mind swap and i felt comfortable with her for a sec like we were together again. I really made sure to let her know that the kiss was a mindless action and it really isnt what i want. Shes been talking with someone and i wanna move on. I could tell from how she acted when i said i nvr want to see you again, that it really got to her. I would actually like to be with her agan but i dont see it happening. My question is that do you think after i tried kissing her and telling her that it really wasnt what i wanted and thanked her for not going with it that now she feels like she doesnt have to worry about me? Worry about me finding someone else or do you think that she probably feels the same? Because I would rather her feel like she misses me like it seemed she did and i dont want her to think that all i want is her. I really sound like an idiot i know.....wow...
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 I think you have deep feelings for your ex and your relationship is over therefore you should walk your own path erasing her from your life. You can't be friends with her because you still have feelings for her.
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reader, vronie2010 +, writes (1 December 2010):
 i think that after you kissed her and told her thats not what you really wanted she probally felt like it was what you wanted and you just said that because she didnt do it back.....im sort of in the same situation with my ex boyfriend well whatever he is at the time and trust me i think if you remai friends you will always think what if and maybe avoiding her for awhile is the best thing dont let her think that you will come back when she snaps her fingers thats not good !!!
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