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30-35,
*ollegeboy89
writes:Does she love me or what? she spend most of her free time on social sites flirting with guys and when i bring it to her attention she acts like omg its just tumblr. wtf u doing rbloggin these guys pics? does she care or whats going on
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 October 2011):
 she may love you she may not...
:::::::digs around looking for that darn crystal ball::::::
if she is your girlfriend and she is online flirting then this is my take on it:
she is insecure with herself
she has no self-esteem and NOTHING you do will fix that.
my last marriage ended because no matter how much I loved him and no matter how much I heaped attention on him and no matter how much i gave him permission to have OPEN honest relationships OUTSIDE of our marriage (yes sexual relationships too) when I would ask him to stop flirting with other women (and NOT telling them he was MARRIED) he would refuse. He needed the ego stroke of thinking these women wanted him as a life partner to make himself feel even a little worthwhile. I was NEVER enoough.
if she is not presenting herself as committed then she is doing it to stroke her ego.
IF she is doing it and presenting herself as a taken woman then she's just chattting up friends but IF YOU ASK HER TO STOP because it upsets you, she should stop. That is if you are in a committed romantic relationship....
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 Are you two in a relationship? If not and shes flirting with guys then she probably doesn't have any feelings for you if shes sending pics of herself to other men.
If you are in a relationship you need to tell her to sort it out because it is essentially another form of cheating if she is sending innapropiate pictures of herself to other guys.
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