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writes:was i wrong, should i contact him or just wait ? so yesterday me and my boyfriend of 3 yrs. got in a arguement he was mad cause he came 2 visit his grandma and do some business but my boyfriend wanted me 2 take him home he lives an hour away we are LDR i don't have my own car my dad lets me borrow his but my dad needed the car at 3Pm so i told my bf i was sorry 4 rushing him but i have 2 take you home cause my dad needs the car it was 1Pm so he was really mad so the whole car ride he didn't talk i asked him if he was still mad and he said yeah why you have 2 rush me and how was i suppose 2 know my dad schedule he is a trucker so my bf said next time he will come 2 see his grandmas on the bus and leave on the bus all i said was okay i didn't want 2 argue so the car ride was quiet when we got 2 his house he took off his seat belt and leaned 4 a good bye kiss but i said aren't you mad like if he didn't want 2 talk 2 me the whole ride taking him home why he want 2 kiss me so he got out and went in his house i thought he would text me and see if i was home safe but he didn't i didn't text him either and 2day wedesday he didn't text me either and i haven't texted him either, do you think he is tired of me or waiting 4 me 2 contact him first ? also was i wrong ? i don't know what 2 do or think it really hurts me i even dreamt about him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 October 2011):
 he was unreasonable if his request for you to take him home was at the last minute.
his leaning in to kiss you goodbye was his way of saying he was done being a pissy boy... but that wasn't a good thing. he needed to use his words...
personally i would have sent a text saying "home safe" and left it at that...
in relationships it's not a matter of who's right or wrong.. if we lived by that it would be horrid there are many times my BF is wrong... but i let it go because it's a small stupid thing and I save my battles for bigger messes...
if you are hurting you should let him know... but not by text.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2011):
 No I don't think you where in the wrong at all. At the end of the day it is not your car and if your dad needs the car well then he is in the right to take it. You where doing your boyfriend a favour by leaving him home even if it was earlier than expected. He should have been thankful and if he did not want to be rushed well then he should have got the bus home.
Personally I don't feel like you should be the one to contact him first. My guess is that he is just being stubborn and that is why he is not contacting you. Leave it a few days and see if he gets in contact with you, if he doesn't and you need answers well then talk to him and ask him why he hasn't been in contact. Explain to him that you took him home early because your dad needed the car and you where doing him a favour and he shouldn't be angry at you.
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