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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Does she like me? If so there must be some hint? It does not make sense. Theres this girl at work, we get on well. I been away for a month and come bk to find everyone telling me i should ask her out because she likes me. I was told there is competition and some other guy keeps tryin it with her when she has clearly rejected numerous times. my response was he can have her im not bothered. Everyone there (all females) was like how can you say that....you dont mean that do you? Making me seem as if im commited a crime.. As if im married to her or something. Anyway i pop in to say hi to her and shes red as a tomato. Left it as that. Didnt talk much there and now i have reduced hours so dont c her there. So i text but i dont get really get much exciting responses. Either. I dont know how to get started. She is shy and quiet girl if that helps.Thank you
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (24 July 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,
Firstly do you really like her?
Don't feel that you have to be pressured into liking someone because that causes relationship to explode!
Secondly you could ask her on a date, like in a restaurant and maybe get to know her but tell her that you just wanna see what she is like. And find out if she really likes you because sometimes as girls can stir up something even if it's a little thing we make out it's a big thing. I guess we're really into match making! looooool
But back to the point, I think you could ask her on a date, or what you could do is talk to her more and just act like friends really good friends and then you'll be able to tell if she really likes you. Like if you get closer to her as friends you can ask her "do you like me in that way" and maybe she'll tell ya.
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2011): She's most likely completely humiliated; I know I would be. I'm in a similar situation to her right now, and I'd say she's probably cut quite deeply if she genuinly likes you. But, do you like her? If so, maybe confront her and say you were caught off gaurd, and that you didn't mean what you said.
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