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anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I am in love with my supervisor. He is 38 nd I am 31. It was all professional until I realised how sweet and how he never ever said no to my demands..I felt he trusted me. Then one time wen I looked at him..?stared maybe subconsciuosly, when I was saying bye to him he made a remark that his wife was waiting for him. I honestly had not thought abt him in that way but from then, I thought hmm, seems he also likes me! I didn't think I would even appear to him. From then on, I have been keen on his body language and I love everyhing he does. When he buys whatever research materials he seems to follow my taste! He bought me a suitcase recently, nad it was a pretty hot pink, like a jacket I had bought recently while in the lab.He is faithful to his wife, takes me out to dinner with his wife but really pays attention to me. Makes sure I taste all the new things he's ordered, puts for me food in the plate and sits close enough for me to listen. I keep it professional but I realise the wife is uneasy. The last time we hugged, he practically releases himself and kind of took off as if nervous.They have no baby and the wife is more petit than I am. I am 100% certin if he asks me out for sex or anything I would say yes. Does he like me? What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2011): It doesn't matter what we say. You confessed that you would sleep with him or go on a date if he chooses to take it to that level. So you're clearly not interested in the "What can I do?" question. I think you KNOW exactly what the responsible, decent course of action is. You probably want someone to tell you that he likes you; that he is falling in love with you, or some emotional fantasy response, but the chances of those case scenarios are slim to nonexistent. He is a man, honey.When a man knows a woman wants them sexually, they go on small little ego trips, feeling like studs. They like the attention and feeling desired. Ultimately if anything develops, it's just going to be sex. And if you want to have a sex with a man who is a cheater, be my guest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2011): He has not touched, kissed or had sex with you. He may be flirting, but who doesn't flirt with co-workers from time to time? You're probably projecting a lot of your desires and wants onto him and his actions. If he wants anything from you, it's probably only sex. How many married men do you know of that leave their wives for easy lays? You're 31 and too old for this nonsense. Have some respect for yourself, their marriage and focus on dating SINGLE people. Do you want to be known as a home-wrecker, or the office personnel that screwed the supervisor?
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (5 August 2011):
 There are no winners in the state of an affair.Since this is your SUPERVISIOR, you could be nailing your career to the grave in the future if you pursue something that would eventually ruin both of your lives.Have some pride. Please.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (4 August 2011):
 It sounds as if an affair could be starting between you. But I can only say do not do it. Think of his poor wife and the mess that can happen. He is married so do not get involved.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (4 August 2011):
 Wow it sounds like you have a bit of a crush on your supervisor. :^) Which is fine..as long as it doesn't escalate. He has a wife, and you'll do damage to their relationship if you allow your feelings for him to progress. So have respect for his wife. And don't have sex with him if he offers or make an attempt to.
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