A
female
age
51-59,
*lain Jane
writes:We're 13 hours time difference apart on the Earth!3 months ago I met a white man, (I am an Asian girl) thru internet - this is the 1st white man cyber friend I ever had. He was quickly attracted to my picture I posted on the net and we became friend. The reason he looked for me is because he will be joining my company soon in Asia and he needs some friends in Asia. Or maybe a girlfriend.After replying back and forth some messages for a bout 2 weeks, he said he is aroused by one of my sexy pose picture and had a 'cum'. I knew he is a decent man with a good job. I had a strong feeling to him now and am not sure how white man's feeling are. He send me messages almost everyday ( unless he's gone overseas business trip) - updating me his whereabout, his job - mosty casual talk and sometimes dirty talks chip in to spice up the conversation. He lives in North America and I live in Asia with more than 20 hours flight. We will most likely meet up end of Dec09 – the ecnomy slumped and delayed his recruitment to my company so in the mean time I ask him to go get sex with other woman at his place , he asked me - " aren't you going to get jealous ? "My reply - nope I won't cos guys are born as polygamous :) (jokingly) – I knew I can’t control an internet fella’s real life and we live so far.So far I do not any other guys sending me messages almost everyday....when he stop sending for a week (he is at work) I will miss him dearly....I tried not to send him any message for 2 days and he starts to get anxious and asked what happen to me ?Question - does he has feeling for me too ??
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Who knows. Only he does. But I cant help wondering why people want to get 'involved' with people off the internet. Whats wrong with the real world? The internet 'relationship' screams of escapism. And maybe you want more, but does he really? He's already showing signs of wanting his ego stroked asking you if you will be jealous if he sleeps with anyone else. You cant meet up for a year, what use is that? Are you going to put your life on hold til then? Only to possibly find out in the flesh its not as great as you thought it would be. Plus I would have serious resevations about a guy that cracked one off over a picture of me on the net. Is that a really nice guy? Sounds right tacky to me! (pardon the pun)
I wouldn't want to make sweeping generalisations about white men, but they are red blooded. Thats all I will say lol
Good luck whatever you decide.
C xxx
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