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Does it hurt? A handjob through fabric?

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Question - (5 May 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright, so handjobs- I HATE them. My boyfriend is constantly wearing basketball shorts, and the elastic is to tight for me to be able to move my arm around enough, so lately, I've been starting out by rubbing him through the shorts. My question is, guys, does that hurt? Obviously I'm not pressing hard, or doing anything that I think would inflict pain, but I just want to make sure it's not. He hasn't said anything about it either, and seems to enjoy it. Well, not as much as other things (; but enough. So, guys, just let me know your opinion on this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010):

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Thanks guys, that makes me feel a lot better. I just wanted to make sure before I kept doing it.

-And in response to Not My Name, the reason I don't like to give him hand jobs is because the skin on skin contact isn't smooth enough. There's to much friction, which is why I prefer the shorts to be in between.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (5 May 2010):

Not My Name agony auntummm, why not just rip his boxers down and eliminate the question?

I know U have said you dont particularly like hand jobs, but if you are practically doing that anyway, what is the diff really between skin and fabric?

You will feel more free in your movement if nothng else.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010):

Honestly, as long as there's no zipper in the way, it will be fine. If there's a zipper rubbing the tip, you might as well put shards of glass in front of it, it's not the greatest feeling in the world. Anything else is alright.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010):

Sometimes it can, if you hold too hard or press the tip of him with the shorts. With shorts, you have to be more gentle. Roll your hands over the shorts, do not hold the shorts to rub him.

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A female reader, star_crossd United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2010):

its ok as in it isn't the most enjoyable thing but i doubt he minds..

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (5 May 2010):

The Realist agony auntThrough something like jeans its not too great, but those basketball shorts are generally soft plus the boxers aren't made to be rough.

It wouldn't hurt at all the only problem is him finishing is those shorts which is just uncomfortable but kind of funny for you.

Lol well he always enjoy the other things but that is a great way to get him going. Trust me if anything is hurting him you'll be able to tell.

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