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writes:What do I do my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and he all of sudden wants space. I asked him what was wrong and he said he isn't in the write state of mind. So the next day we got back together and then his phone calls and texts are far and few between. Is he trying to let me down easy? or does he still care for me? and should I wait for him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionToday was a good day for us. But I told me he likes me but I personally think that he is scared of getting close to someone because every opportunity from his childhood and relationships. He has never seen a healthy relationship his parents cheated on each other and did drugs and his past girlfriend cheated on him. So I really think he is scared of getting close to me. I usually clean his house and try and be the best girlfriend I can. Of course people have flaws but from the beginning I have done everything to please him so now it is really hard to not be like that. One other thing about him is I think he might be depressed since he doesn't really do much during the day time. He likes to watch tv and relax nothing else really. I feel really bad for him sometime but he won't open up can you help me help him open up to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): Either something is bothering him (having his own problems) or he's letting you down easy. Ask him
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (9 April 2009):
Hes obviously got his head in the wrong place and its affecting his priorities and some guys cant handle that, so they act differently and the relationship is effected, im guessing after 9 months this is what it is. If he was trying to let you down (after 9 months) i think hed do the decent thing and let you know, however you know him best and so if his actions are so out of character you cant second guess him, you need to ask him for an honest and genuine explanation, you deserve to know where you stand and likewise he owes you the respect of letting you know.
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