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*adekaya
writes:So I'm trying to figure out if my ex still has feelings for me...We broke up just over 2 months ago, we were together for four month and up until the last 3 weeks our relationship was amazing, we broke up because he had decided he was too busy to have a relationship (basically he didn't think I was worth his time) Then after the breakup things got petty, he was rubbing in my face on social media how wonderful his life was without me, lots of topless pictures, pictures with girls etc.So eventually I blocked him on that media platform and got on with my life. So just recently, my friends have been posting a lot on Instagram with me in them, and same with snap chat, and he unfolllwed all of them, and he blocked all of them on snap chat. Am I right in thinking this was because it was too much seeing my face? We also had a picutre together on his Instagram, he recently deleted that too... So I wrote in my previous post that I accidentally emailed him, then sent him a text to apologised and he asked me a series of questions about how I was doing etc. This has given me hope because it was a really friendly light hearted conversation.But I replied with quite a dry answer to see if he would reply, and he hasn't read it or been on whatsapp since 8:10 on Monday, but he I can see him liking things on Instagram? Was he just taking that as the end to the conversation and not wanting to read it because it would be rude? I'm so confused! Thank you
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 November 2016):
 Hmm I did read your last post, thanks for the extra information. He broke up with you, therefore I feel if he wanted to get back with you he would have made the move. You emailed him, you say by mistake but we all know that it wasn't. So this shows that you are still not over him. I think you just need to continue getting over him and realize that if he wanted you then he would never have finished with you. You are worth more than that.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 November 2016):
 Probably he realized that things got out of hand after the break up and there was unnecessary pettiness from both sides, so he took the chance of the message you sent him by mistake to be civil and bring things back to a mature, polite level.
He does not seem to want to contuinue talking to you- and anyway , it would be a moot point, wouldn't it ? If just two months ago he has decided you were not worth his time, it's improbable that all of a sudden he changed his mind and decided you are .
You can stop your confusion by letting him in the past and moving on.Hopefully to some other guy who instead thinks you are totally worth his time and has no trouble in sharing it with you.
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reader, N91 +, writes (23 November 2016):
 Why are you wasting your time wondering whether he still cares or not? You've just told us that you weren't worth his time when you were IN a relationship, so why would he still care about you now 2 months on?
Stop thinking about it. He's clearly not wanting to speak to you or else he surely would of replied by now, especially if he's using his phone for other things, he's definitely seen the message and chose not to click on it so you know it's been read.
You can do better than this guy and you know you can, so stop trying to work out whether he still cares and focus that energy on moving on.
Good luck
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