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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really like this boy i know from my swimming club, he is really enjoyable to be around and has a great torso and is really good looking. we went out the weekend before last on both days and we did a few things on the sunday then he text me almost every night that week and i thought it was going great, but now he has phoned me to say he doesn't like me in that way and that we can't even be friends, when before he said i was so beautiful and the like, i'm so confused was he just using me or did he actualy like me i wasn't to bothered before but now he has said we can't be more than friends i can't stop thinking about him. what should i do????
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reader, x.Helpful.Cupid.x +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Hiya.
Hmm..This is a hard question to answer. Maybe this guy was using you, but i wouldnt worry much, because you can obviously do better!! His phone call sounded harsh, and maybe something has come up like family or friends etc that made him not want to see you anymore. He probably still likes you, but is under pressure at the moment. Try calling him or aranging to meet up as friends to discuss the situation. Ask him if somethings the matter, or if you upset him in any way.
Good luck x
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reader, kenny +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Its hard to say if he was just using you or after a week just had a change of heart torwards you.
Did you do something to upset him?. I ask this because his phone call to you is a little harsh, he dosen't like you in that way and doesen't even want to be friends. Did he offer you an explanation as to the sudden change of heart?. If not maybe seek a reason why just for your peace of mind maybe. If he won't then just forget about this guy and move on.
good luck x
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