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writes:I don't know what I'm supposed to do. My boyfriend has been working at this job for about 5 or 6 months now. He has this lady boss that is obviously interested in him. She has a list of guys she wants to sleep with at this work and also said to one of the others that she has been so close to my boyfriend, that she could just feel the kiss.....WTF! What am I supposed to do? I don't know this first hand, but the people that I have heard it from work with her or are her friend. My boyfriend denies anything I ask him, but I know different and don't know how I am supposed to act towards him. I keep telling him if he has something to say to me, he should, instead of me hearing it from someone else, you know? Does anyone have ANY advice whatsoever I can do about this? I don't appreciate her having my boyfriend's name on a list that she wants to sleep with and how. That's pretty immature if you ask me. HELP PLEASE!!!!! This is driving me crazy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHow would I go about reporting her? I didn't know if that would make me the worse person or what. I would LOVE to though and I'm sure others would be happy too, not just me. I have heard of him saying things like he's sexy around the office and that, but besides that, nothing he does, I think, is inappropriate. I have confronted him about this and what I know, he just denies it and says they are just stories. I don't know who in their right mind would make up such a story though. Thanks for all your guys' help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): it is against the law for this woman to act this way in a superior position. You should report her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): I don't think that you're overreacting. The fact that he is lying about it and denying it would really worry me. I think that you should just confront him outright and tell him what you know and then see what he has to say about it. Also, you should ask the people that work with her and are telling you about it whether your boyfriend has been behaving appropriately or not. Please update us, I'm curious to see how it goes for you.Good luck
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reader, cd206  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 I really think he's lying for a quiet life. Why not ask him straight out? If it's bothering you this much then you need a definitive answer. Incidentally I didn't mean to offend you by suggesting you're insecure, I was just trying to help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI may be insecure, but only because he has lied about this girl in the past. About going over to her house and working with her and not being friends with her. I do trust him very much, I mostly don't trust this individual and she has done this crap to almost every guy that has worked there. I don't appreciate her actions or my boyfriend lying for her either.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 February 2007):
There's only one thing to consider here. Do you trust your boyfriend? Just because this woman has his name on a list and wants to sleep with him doesn't mean she'll get what she wants. If your boyfriend is truly committed to you then you have no problems. If he's not committed to you you're better off without him. As for denying everything it sounds like you're quite an insecure person. Do you often question him about other women? Maybe he's just trying to shut you up or maybe he doesn't see it as a big deal because it's not going to happen. Either way I REALLY don't think you have anything to worry about.
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