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writes:so this morning my boyfriend and i had sex and he asked me if i wanted to get pregnant or try getting pregnant and i said yes so we came at the same time because i was told it's better if you both cum at the same time then afterwards he was all nervous and asking "what if you really get pregnant" like he didn't want to anymore .... why would he ask me if i wanted one if he didn't? why would he try if he didn't want one? who does that to someone?! Reply to this Question
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reader, IvyWitch9117 +, writes (15 September 2007):
IvyWitch9117 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you guys so much that actually really really helps i never really thought about it like that but now that i'm thinking about what you said it really really makes since thank you very very much.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): Yeah I was just thinking the exact same thing as the below comment. Guys will say anything to come inside you. It's true. They are in the heat of the moment and they are just thinking pleasure. That was probably "dirty talk" for him. I know it sounds funny, but I'm being serious.
Anyways you don't want to have a baby do you? He probably doesn't think so. That is something you plan not something you blurt out in the heat of the moment. He probably thought you were well aware of this. Anyways, next time he wants to come in you and asks if you want to try for a baby be like "god no! I don't want to have a baby." And act like he just turned you off. And then he will be more reluctant to say things that he doesn't really mean.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (15 September 2007):
 Oh sweetheart, wait unti you're in the convent relationship of marriage before having children. It makes things so much easier.
Boyfriends will say anything to cum inside you. I'm a man - and it feels TONS better when I cum inside a woman versus having to pull out. Plus, while you're in the heat of the moment, meaning, it seems you were actually having sex while he asked you this question (or at least you were asked before starting to have sex) you're are liable to say ANYTHING! That's probably why he wanted to get you pregnant before he came and didn't after he had already cum. The hormone levels dipped and his mind wasn't clouded by the act of having sex.
Here's a good example for you: There are men out there who would like to eat their own cum. I know, I know, but just follow me on this one. It seems very interesting when they're thinking about it before sex (or masturbation) and say that when they cum, they're gonna do it. But as soon as they cum, the thought of doing it is GONE. Some men have even said that before cumming it was interesting but after cumming it seemed disgusting! THAT'S why he said "what if you really get pregnant?" AFTER he came.
Hope this helps.
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