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anonymous
writes:basically there's a guy from uni who is quiet but i always speak to him..not really ever attaractive to him bt he keeps himself to him self...then yesterday we both randomly chatting on fb and said personal family things...i said hug. his response being:I like the things you are doing :-)next time we meet for 'real' we should hug for 'real', or would that make you feel uncomfortable?and i said no i feel shy hugging guys .was he flirting or not? at uni recently we are talking more now but we are in our last yearhe replied saying ok we can say hi instead and now since thursday has not replied back to me.. aso t says hes in a complicated relationship. Does he like me?or was he being friendly. Just wish wouldnt ignore
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHim: Why do you think you offended me? I keep being told I think too deep. I think other people don't think deep enough. Or maybe people are just not always on the same page.
me: because one of my weakneses is that i speak bluntly but with pure intentions and i felt with the whole hug convo that i didnt say what i properly meant.. hard to explain but i tihnk i was on a different page lol.
Him: Oh right. Sorry. I just meant a hug like I hug my friends or people on my wave-length, y'know?
guess i got wrong end of stick :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your replies, Iamheretohelp i understand what you mean but lets say in 3 years i never seen him hug any one or be close to any one at uni hence it being "a big deal" esp as he in a complicated relationship according to his fb.
mammaboo i think the same now i think seeing as he hasnt replied to me sad thing is past days been on my mind so i just wish he would reply!
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (28 November 2011):
 He was flirting with you and you brushed him off. No big deal he needs to deal with rejection!
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