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writes: Hey.I dont know what to do. Im bisexual and theres this guy at school in the year below me who is absolutely gorgeous!!! unbelievably stunning!Well there are loads of times where i see him looking at me. Now i would want nothing more than to find out that he actually likes me but as usual....is he straight, bi or gay??who knows really?I mean honestly, if you're "out" at my school...its kind of the end of your school life basically. I mean, no-one knows im bisexual...but then i suppose its a little easier for me because i still like girls so i can relate to other guys and that...but anyway im going waaaaaaay of the point here.I know its hard from just looks and glances, but i need to know if he likes me or not. I mean the only way i would approach him (because ive never said a word to him in my life) would be if i knew he was interested in me.Are these looks for real? or is he just looking and thinking "why is that guy looking at me?...what a freak!"ARGH! he is just unbelievable and i want to get to know him so much :) Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (29 September 2010):
Are there any classes or sports that you have together??? Choir, Shop, Football, Track, Golf, etc?
The only way that you're gonna find out for sure... is to become friends with him... somehow... and the only way that you do that... is if you meet through mutual friends... or you have some sort of shared activities/classes together... or you 'bump' into him in the hall... or lunchroom or something.
If YOU wanna get meet him YOU have to make the move. Especially since he's a year younger than you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Babe. chill. you need to take this slow. take the time to find something you have in common with this guy. start using face book or msn to get to know him and find a link. i don't think you can really know that you like him a lot if you guys don't talk. just say hi one day or smile. then he will know your being friendly. lots of people will say... the best relationships come from friendship. good luck honey. let me know how things turn out for you. :) much love. x
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