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41-50,
*enie53uk
writes:ok so heres the thing last summer i was with this guy we had fun you know as mates and that then we became friends with benifits . anyway i fell for him as you do and he said he didnt want a relationship and cant see us as ever having a relationship, so i ended it with him and moved on this was feburary this year.anyway in say march /april he texted me again saying we should be mates i agreed and said yea as he had a girlfriend now i didnt mind being mates , although we was rather talk on the phone or text mates as he would never meet me . anyway i got in a seriouse car crash and was hurt , and we would text and talk and he told me he broke up with girlfriend and we continue to talk he told me how he feels alone anyway we started to send flirting text messages to each other a few weeks ago and he kept asking me to come round i kept saying no as i didnt wanna have sex with him again and get hurt and led on . but we continue to flirt text . so then he texted me saying how he cant lead me on and wants to be alone for a while so i said ok , so now he texted me this week saying how he miss me , and i said you only miss the sex and me being your fuck buddy and he said no , then i said you did and im sure youl find a replacement soon . so then he text me saying how he missed being close to me and the sex was good but we didnt do it enough . can someone tell me what hes playing at
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reader, AskEve +, writes (22 May 2007):
 He probably did enjoy your company but he's single again which means.... HE'S MISSING SEX! He knew you were a sure thing the last time so he's putting the feelers out again in the hope you'll be his f*** buddy again. With this in mind, the next time he asks you round tell him okay, you'll come, but only as a platonic friend. If he agrees then go round but DON'T sleep with him. If he comes on to you then you have your answer! If you don't want to be hurt again then walk away but don't fall for any of his charms as he's only wanting into your knickers.
If he does have any genuine feelings for you and respects you at all then he'll prove that by being the perfect gentleman and NOT making a move on you this first time.
Eve
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